How do you know when the time is right? Third date last night, daily phone calls and definite chemistry. Darren drove all the way from NoSco to my place (Downtown) to take me to Jugheads. It's like driving a full circle, but he wanted to pick me up. Who the fuck picks up a girl anymore to go out???? Cool points for that. My intern's band was playing last night and we had a really good time. Normally, the PDA thing doesn't fly with me, but a couple kisses at the bar just seemed...right. Not like I really cared what anyone there thought anyway.
So, he drives me home, it's a bit before midnight, I invite him in. Wasn't really expecting much. All we'd done so far is kiss. I think it's the East Coast in him. Well, in both of us. It's funny how different people are, depending on where they're from. Seems that most guys I've dated expected WAY too much the first time together.
My older sister told me not to change the sheets. Good deterrment not to sleep with the guy. So, I didn't. Other say not to shave your legs. I can't do that, because hairy legs bother me more than a guy. They wouldn't notice anyway, I'm sure. Not with a vagina staring them in the face.
So, I know he wanted to, but I told him what my sister said. He was cool with it, at least that's what I got from him. We'll see. I can get laid anytime I want. I think it's about time for something more. I'd rather have feelings behind it, too.
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Girl, I commend you for your ability to make a decision beforehand and stick with it... especially in the heat of the moment!
I hope that things continue to go well and that the two of you have a great first experience together when you are ready!!
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